What is
mindfulness?
Someone once
said, “Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice,
because the flow that has passed will never pass again. Enjoy every moment of
life.”
And that sums up
mindfulness in a nutshell. How often do we think of the past and of what we
have missed, or sit in regret because we didn’t do something or say something
at the time. And how often do we think about the future and what we want and
what we are going to do, but the tomorrow of our future never seems to arrive.
At times we can
be so busy with our thoughts that we don’t even notice what is going on around
us. Have you ever found that you have left for a destination and travelled
there but been so absorbed in your thoughts that you don’t remember how you got
there?
Mindfulness means
becoming more aware of the here and now and stilling the many thoughts that
flow in and out of your mind at one time. Being mindful involves letting go of
negative feelings, past hurts and grudges but acknowledging the events that led
you to the way you feel, but not allowing those feelings to take control of
your life.
Walking mindfully
is one way of staying in the present moment. Become aware of each step that you
take when you are walking somewhere and start to notice your surroundings as
your walk. Try to empty your mind of all the things you need to do during the
day and start to include more positive thoughts into your day like, “I am
having a wonderful day” or “I am going to take the time to listen more
attentively to others today”.
Be aware of your
breathing. When we get stressed or tense, our breathing becomes more shallow
and so less oxygen is distributed throughout the body. When the phone rings or
you are about to go into a meeting, take in a deep breathe and let it out
slowly. This will help you to stay focused and present in the moment.
When you are
eating or drinking something, take a moment to enjoy the taste. Very often we
will eat a meal and be so engrossed in our thoughts that we don’t even notice
what we are eating or how much food we are putting into our mouths. Become more
aware of the texture of your food, whether it is hot or cold, and notice how
your mouth feels as you chew the food.
Practicing
mindfulness is also a wonderful way for preventing life from getting in the way
of living, and for full experiencing each special moment in your life.